IN THE PRESS
Nicola is a Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist who has helped hundreds of couples get their relationships back on track. She teaches couples how to stop growing apart and teaches how to rediscover intimacy and what makes 'love worth making' so they can create deeper, more extraordinary relationships.
Nicola also helps partners who are worried about becoming stuck in a loveless marriage on how to turn things around and reconnect emotionally and sexually.
Nicola also helps couples who want to recover after an affair and begin to rebuild trust.
As well her professional relationship therapy qualifications, Nicola has over 10 years’ experience assisting acclaimed relationship teacher Jan Day and teaching her own workshop groups. She's known for working with deep emotions with warmth, kindness and a playful sense of fun. Nicola combines the deep listening and knowledge of a skilled therapist, with the practical, step-by-step guidance of a coach. She works with mind, body and soul to facilitate healing, growth and transformation in intimate relationships.
A selection of articles & podcasts are below.
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Nicola's Story
Not long after my 30th birthday - my partner went missing. As weeks and months passed I went through a rollercoaster of grief, anger, fear, loneliness and shame. He'd been having secret affairs. He eventually came back after several months travelling the world. I went on to spend my thirties numbing out, socialising and getting busy. I dated and I found it arduous and frustrating and rarely fun. I've been through heartbreak, despair, a few more relationship beginnings and endings, a partner’s cancer diagnosis, and a healing journey of discovery around my own sexuality and spiritual essence.
I was frustrated by the bounds of a corporate career and I wanted to work in a healing profession.
I decided to retrain. It took me over a decade to figure out what that was but slowly but surely I retrained. First as an NLP and career coach (Birkbeck Uni) and then as a couples, sex and relationship therapist taking the London Diploma of Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy (LDPRT). My approach now integrates all my study and learning with my personal mindfulness practices, yoga and the belief that working to heal our trauma opens us to greater wholeness and expansion. I am passionate about transformation and growing from struggle and challenge to find more peace, joy, ease and fun
Expert Topics
Adaptable for podcasts, summits, Instagram Lives and other formats. In-person & online.
- Getting the 'spark' back in long term relationships
- Refresh and revive your midlife sex life
- How not to end up in a loveless partnership - how to reconnect with intimacy
- The sexual aspects of menopause and why peri menopause and menopause is the perfect time to rediscover sex
- What to do after an affair and rebuilding trust
- Attachment Styles / Moving Towards Secure Attachment
